I can't stand the cheap pick up lines that some men give. It sound so corny and you may like him but if he say's a corny line it turns you off.A corny line is as bad as someone making a sound or saying something wrong during sex. There is no recovery from it, and your first impression is lost.
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Growing up I was always the girl next door type. Although, I had plenty of female friends they were not true friends. Many of them displayed signs of jealousy towards me, for what I never knew. They also hug out with me because I was probably friends with they guy they liked "just one of the guy's". Maybe it was because all the guy's enjoyed hanging out with me, and I had lots of male friends.
Even today male friends are easy to come by for me. I was always just one of the guy's. It's fun being one of the guy's because you learn so much about men. They would all treat me with so much respect, and they never allowed anyone to bother me.
Being one of the guy's I saw that men don't talk about sex as much as women think they do. They also live double lives and act different around they're woman. I had one friend I wont say his name but he talked about his woman like a dog.
She was ever name in the book, and we were all convinced that he would leave her soon. However, years pasted and he never left her. I could never quite understand why he seemed so unhappy with her but wouldn't leave? I came to the conclusion that in fact he was so in love that he had to put her down for the fellas. He didn't want to show how he really felt inside about her.
I always wonder if may man was doing the same thing behind my back? If so that would kill me inside to know. We did have one mutual friend that hated to see his friends cheat on they're woman. Therefore, he would find little ways to leak the info. Over all the guy did do some crazy, embarrassing, and rude thing but they were just being guy's.
I can respect the fact that they had more respect for me than they're woman or dates. I always said to myself if only the women knew halve of what they did when they were not around. My friends are and were always the kind of guy's most woman would consider to be good men.
This is why I have a whole different idea of what a good guy really looks like. Like I said it's always fun being one of the guy's. Watching football, solving they're female problems, and learning. I can say they all laced me well.LOL...
The chemistry between you and another person determines if it will last.Have you ever met someone that the chemistry between you two was crazy? Have you ever met someone that you couldn't keep your eye's off of? You may not be actually be touching that person, but in your mine your doing all kind of things to them. Your drawn to them and nothing else matters but you getting with them. I call this fiery chemistry because it's almost as good as having sex. If you have not met someone who makes you feel like this you have not had sex. Having sex with someone that you have crazy chemistry with is like two minds talking to each other. I mean there is no need to talk because you both know what the other one wants. You always have great sex with someone like this. I don't know chemistry is the word for the strong connection you have. Is it the swagger of the person that pulls you in like energy?
We have heard woman all over the world say "Men ain't Sh*t". Although, we all feel this way to some degree we can't stop loving men. Believe it or the man carry the sperm and without him none of us would be here. I know all to well how important the female specie is, so give credit were it is do. A needs a man for way more than sexual reasons. Therefore, she will stay with a man who cheats or lies. However it is important to both men and woman to know what kind of woman you are. There are four different kinds of woman in this situation. How these four woman think is very important to why she allows his cheating behavior. I want you to keep in mind most woman don't know that they have the attitude of one of these four woman. All men live secret lives and you shouldn't be naive about it ladies.
This kind of woman probably has the good job/career, nice car, house, and maybe children. However, she is very comfortable with her life and a little cheating is no going to get in the way. She wont be the woman checking up on her man all the time. She wont ask him where he has been or where he is going. In her mind if you search for it you will find it. Therefore, she steers clear of any confrontations with another woman. Often men find this woman to be naive because she leaves so much room for him to cheat. I would advise him to think twice because out of all the woman she will leave the fastest. She may walk around living her life as if she is blind to things around her. However, She knows what she know and keeps it to herself. Don't ever put your cheating ways in this woman's face because all hell will break loose. Remember she lives with blinders on for a reason, so don't go ruining her life. Remember she don't wanna know.
This kind of woman more than likely does not have the job she wants, or may not work at all. In fact she may be depending on him to support her. She feels vulnerable because she loves him but she thinks he does not feel the same. She may argue with him about his cheating and lying ways. She may call the other woman and fight for her honor. She has probably found numbers,and condoms in her house. Therefore, she knows that he cheats but more importantly wants to know what she did wrong. This woman has been through a lot and her self esteem is low. She stays because she is so busy trying to fix what every is wrong with her. She thinks if he is cheating I must have done something wrong, and I will be better when I know what it is. This day will never come for her so she will stick around forever. A men will stay with this kind of woman until the well runs dry.
This kind of woman is very beautiful, sex, and always gets what she wants. She is use to being spoiled by men and ponder after. However, she lives life like a fantasy with no real understanding of what men want. She tells herself "he wouldn't cheat on this" I look to good or my sex is to good. A man will find this kind of woman the most exciting to cheat on. It will just make him feel powerful the more beautiful the woman is. She will put her man in possible situations where he can cheat. She will let her best friend move in with them. She will look over him flirting with other woman. This woman is so confident that she looks to good for him to cheat. Therefore, when it happens and she finds out she is ruined for life. This kind of woman will never be the same.
Have you ever broke up with someone and they keep calling, and coming around? They don't want to let you go so they try to stay around. It drives you crazy because you just want to move on. This may go on for weeks and weeks until finally they stop calling. You find out that your ex has found someone new in they're life. This is the part I don't understand why do we get jealous and want them back? Is it because we have finally figured out that this person is the one for us. Maybe we are truly in love and just needed time to see it. However, it may be that we just love the power we had over that person and want it back. Who wouldn't love to have there own fan club or cheering squad? It's crazy to think of it this way but there is no other way to explain the feelings you get seeing them with someone else. Is it because you don't want to see them happy or maybe not happier than when you were together?
I also asked myself what made that person decide to move on and finally stop calling? Did they finally get the picture that your not interested anymore? Maybe they didn't really want you back or just didn't know how to move on? It is also possible that this new love they have found is just a way to get you back? If they are going through all this trouble to get someone back should you be with them? I have to say that this technique does work most of the time, and the person get's what they want. However, it could also back fire and make your ex never call you because you have someone new. What do you all think leave me a comment and give me your ideas?