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Making It Through Your 20's

I say the most trying, and emotional times in a persons life is between the ages 19 to 30.  I say this because at this time most people are still trying to figure it all out. Where am I going, what will I do, who am I , when will I do it ,and how will it happen. Searching for the answers to life.

For most people they have just life home for the first time; this could be hard for some. Whether you at home with your parents, or on your own it is an emotional time. One of the hardest things in life is figuring out who you are, and what you want.

Trying to be responsible while having the pressures of life around you. My best advice for a person in they're twenties is to try to except a few things. You may not make all the right decisions, or judgements but it's apart of learning. You may not be very focused on anything, but you will catch up to life. What happens in your lief will affect your affect your whole life good, or bad.

Feeling confused about life at this age is normal, but don't let it overcome you. Trying to always hold on to one goal. Don't lose site of it for nothing. Whatever, you do keep your credit clear, and try to save some money.Stay away from serious relationship until your out of your twenties.

Buy the time your thirty you should have something to start life with. Use this time to get poor habits out of your system. Don't do thing you will regret the next day.

 

Why Is It Important For A Woman To Have Titles

A woman needs a title because it gives her status, and purpose in the relationship. These are the titles a woman looking for love should be looking for:

Boyfriend&Girlfriend vs Friends With Benefits

I was asked this question yesterday, and I would like to share my answer with you. Well in many ways both of these relationships could be the same relationship. You ask why? Because, in many ways both of these situations have the same underlining premise.

Opening Up About Your feelings

Starting a new relationship can be exciting, and you never seem to get bored. However, in the beginning we don't have a problem telling our mate how we feel. We rarely ask the question how do you feel about me, or us. Maybe it is because we show our love for one another more easily in the beginning. No need to ask about love when your always cupcakin.

It is after we have had all of our fun, when we stop talking as much, stop hugging, and start to argue. We then start to feel like do this person really love me? Nothings the same, and he/she is ignoring me more we don't even go out. We feel rejected, lost, lonely, and unresolvedin our relationship. We feel unresolved because we have lost touch of what it takes to communicate with each other.

You ever notice how easy it is to communicate in the beginning of your relationship? It changes because our expectations change, and we don't realize that we don't have to change with it. When you first start to look at your mate and wonder if they love you open up. Open up about your feelings, and don't worry about getting hurt or shot down. If you want your relationship to last it is worth it.You only want the truth, and sometimes the truth hurts.

If we learn to open up like in the beginning we wouldn't have these problems. It is easy to open up in the beginning because your not in love, your having fun, and you don't know where this is going. The only thing different when it get's serious is your falling in love. My advice you should always be having fun, and you never know where a relationship is going. Try to focus on opening up on an all the time bases.

I would like to hear how opening up has helped, or not helped you? Comment below!

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I am not an expert on this subject but I would love to here your comments or questions about relationships, love etc.. Please e- mail all questions to DsherayR@yahoo.com All questions and comments will be approved first and will be anonymous. Thank you!