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Mother gives birth to twins by two different men

A very rare, and unique pair of twins. According to bossip.com "In a case of infidelity that spiraled out of control, a woman has given birth to children with a man that she was having an affair with, but it has a little twist.
Having twins, Mia Washington now has two sons that are actually half-brothers, as they were born from two different men, with the other being her fianceeé. " Check out the video hiphopwired.com

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Everyone Has Met Their Soul-Mate

We spend the best part of our lives looking for a special kind of love in a relationship. A love that will love us unconditionally, a love that is designed just for us. It is what we call our soul-mate. They say this person comes into your live and it's like something takes over you. Your soul-mate may be tall, intelligent, ambitious, honest, etc..the list goes on. However, have we ever stopped to think that what we want in the ideal person we want for ourselves?

We are our soul-mate because what we really want is those qualities in ourselves. We are looking for something that only we ourselves can obtain. The soul-mate we are looking for is nothing but a reflection of our potential in life. because we are all unique no one can ever be you, therefore, a soul-mate can never exist in another person as it exist in yourself. Once we become our true selves we will be able to have better relationships.

We can become our true selves by becoming our soul-mate. You ever notice how the more you grow for the better the less you think about people loving you? Living up to your potential is the key to your happiness in your relationship. I am talking about your whole self, physical, spiritual, and mental ability. Owe yourself, and you will find that love was always with you. Your mate  will no longer have  the pressure of being this person they can never be for you.

A soul-mate is the soul within your waiting to come out, and once you find it you will fall in love.

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Great In Bed Don't Make You A pro

Often times when you meet someone that's great in bed that is all they have to offer. If you know that you have the goods than offer more to complete the package. A woman should not only be good in bed, but know how to cook, clean herself, and comfort her mate. This is a small list of things to say the least. Men should be great in bed, but also a good provider, mature, and offer security.

I am not saying a woman should just cook, and clean, but should know how to do these things. It is in a woman's nature to nurture her surroundings, and love ones. A relationship is no different you should be willing to love your mate on different levels. A man being a provider does not mean he is to take care of a woman financially.

He is to provide a woman with a real man experience. In other words he needs to show her respect, security, and love which only a true man can do. If you give a woman a full experience she will always be yours, and will do anything to help you stay a good man. Allow yourself to experience love on all levels not just sexually. Being good in bed wont make you a pro at love.

Should couples have friends that are single?

I think every couple has this problem at some point in your relationship. If your a couple should any one of you hang out with your single friends? If it is a close friend that has been around for years why not they're like part of the family. However, I think couples tend to do better with friends that are also in a relationship, and it's funner.

Going out with your single buddies, or girls while your in a serious relationship can be a great temptation. How many times have you heard of people cheating because they were drunk? It makes me think were was your mate while you were out drinking? Going on double dates when your a couple really brings you closer together.

People who have single friends when they hang out tend to do things single people do. This can be hard to deal with because you want to fit in especially for guy's. You don't want to be looked at as being whipped or a punk. On the other hand people who hang with friends in the same situation as them do things that are safe. Even if they go out to the club it's a different experience you don't feel pressured. 

I think couples can do the same things as single people do. Try going out on dates regularly so that you wont miss it. Have a group of mutual friends to do thing with, and if someone is single in that group it's easier to deal with. They are like family. One of the main problems is that people don't like to introduce their friends to they're mate. You should always introduce you good friends to your mate don't just hang out with people they don't know. When you build relationships with mutual friends it brings you closer.

Living in the past wont build you a future

In 2010 we all need to move into the future and leave the past behind us. Often I hear people talk about how they can't find love because they are still in love with they're ex. They have had bad relationships and got burned. Living in the past while building a future will only give you a back door to the past. In other words your future never exists for you because the past is your then, now, and forever. If we continue to give thinking like this power we will stagnate our growth.

There is no need to dream big, or go back to school because the past is your future. We have to take back the power that lingers from what we thought was good love, or a bad experience. Remember there is no such things as a problem only solutions, you just need to find it. We all die away inside like a dirty disease because we hold on to it. We let soured love fester, and grow within us to the point where we can't even recognize love in a relationship. 

We were created from love and don't need to find it because we are love. We just need to share it with others. However, if your searching for something and it's right in your face you will never find it. If you continue to except your past as your future it's like saying you are no better than that. Therefore, I ask have you given up on yourself? Let your future dictate the process by letting go of your past and it's comfort.

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JD's Living The Life(Talk to me)

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Jermain Dupri and Johnta Austin talk about the current problem some people face. Why is it that so many celebrities are getting into trouble? You would think that with all that they have accomplished they would stay far away from trouble. However, the reality is that we are all human and go through human  trails in life. Money will never change what you have going on within yourself if you don't let it. I guess success is not what you have, but how you have grown.

Swingers And Lovers

This is an answer to a recent skribit question. Is swinging Okay? When I think of a couple that is into swinging for pleasure I don't believe it is a real union. I don't mean to offend anyone however, you asked the question so I will answer from my opinion. I would say engaging in swinging for couples is never a good idea because it breaks all the lines of respect.Certain respect values can never be rebuilt if broke in a relationship.

There is no way you can show a lack of respect for yourself and expect it to be given. While some people may be content with sharing their mate I don't believe their happy. If your doing this in order to please your mate they will never be pleased with you. if your mate is willing to do any and everything it takes the fun out of the adventure. Somethings are best left to fantasy for the sake of the relationship. Why, because everything we may think we want may not be what we really want in the end.

When swinging as a couple you are taking everything that makes a relationship a relationship out. therefore, leaving nothing but the sex. There are other ways to have great sex or keep the flame burning in your relationship. Life is to short to put your life at risk.

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Late nights & traveling

This is the answer to the resent Skribit question. Does long hours and traveling mean cheating? This could indeed mean that the person is cheating. However, it could also be looked at as a sign that your mate is growing tired or getting bore in the relationship. Some people turn to work and other things in order to cope with stress of a relationship. If you have a stressful relationship than your mate wont want to be around much. This does not always mean cheating.

You know your relationship best and if there is cheating going on you probably already know. Often we allow ourselves to question what is obvious to us because we are not ready to let go. I would suggest you weigh it all out before acting on your suspicions. While cheaters do tend to find ways to get out of the house or from around their mate it is not always the case of cheating. There are people who just can't find the words to say they are not happy. Go with your gut on this and think it all through because if your mate is cheating you have to know what your going to do about it.  

If your not going to leave the person than you shouldn't even bring it up. I mean what is the use if your going to deal with it anyway. You need to think about if this relationship is worth saving or if your completely done. Sometimes just simple voicing your concerns can make a great change in the problem at hand. Cheating is not the end of a relationship.

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